When preparing for a storm with a child who has special needs, predictability can provide comfort. Start by explaining what storms are and how your family will stay safe during one. Include simple, clear visuals to make it more accessible. Practice safety drills together, so that when the storm comes, the experience feels familiar. A visual timeline of events during the storm can help your child anticipate what will happen, reducing anxiety.
Sensory support is crucial, as children with special needs might find the sounds of a storm overwhelming. Equip your child with noise-canceling headphones or earplugs to muffle loud noises like thunder. If your child responds well to deep pressure, provide weighted blankets or compression vests to calm their nervous system. Sensory toys or fidgets can also offer an outlet for nervous energy, helping to regulate emotions during the storm.
Creating a calm, safe space is another important step. Set up a cozy area where your child can retreat during the storm, filled with familiar, comforting items like favorite stuffed animals, pillows, and blankets. Soft lighting and calming music or white noise can help reduce the impact of stressful sounds from the storm. This designated space offers security and control during uncertain times.
When explaining the situation to your child, use clear, simple language to describe what’s happening. Avoid overly complex explanations and instead focus on reassurance, such as “The storm is loud, but we are safe here together.” Reflect their feelings back to them, validating their emotions and offering comfort. Acknowledging their anxiety will help them feel heard and understood.
Maintaining routines is important, even during a storm. Sticking to familiar daily routines, such as meal and bedtime schedules, can help regulate your child’s nervous system and create a sense of stability. If certain parts of the routine aren’t possible, like taking a bath without water, offer alternatives that mimic the routine, such as wiping down with baby wipes or a damp cloth.
Offering small choices can help your child feel a sense of control in an otherwise unpredictable situation. Let them decide on simple things, like which blanket to use or what game to play. You can also empower them by giving them small tasks, such as helping pack a storm “safety kit” or picking snacks for a storm picnic. This helps them feel more involved and in control, easing their anxiety.
During times of stress, relaxation techniques can be very helpful. Practice deep breathing exercises or sensory calming techniques like stroking a soft object or using a sensory brush. These strategies, if practiced beforehand, can be easily used when a storm occurs. Apps with calming visuals and sounds may also help your child relax.
It’s also important to anticipate regression during stressful events like storms. Children may temporarily lose skills they’ve recently acquired, and you may notice increased anxiety or emotional outbursts. This is a normal response to stress. Be flexible and ready to provide extra support where it’s needed, offering comfort and understanding.
A well-prepared “storm kit” can provide comfort and familiarity. Fill it with your child’s favorite snacks, toys, books, and fidgets to keep them occupied and calm. Including sensory regulation tools, like stress balls or weighted blankets, can further help with managing anxiety and providing comfort.
Finally, model calm behavior yourself. Children often reflect the emotions of their caregivers, so staying calm and using soothing body language can help ease their stress. You can even model self-calming by speaking aloud, saying things like, “The thunder is loud, but we’re safe, and I’m taking deep breaths to help myself feel better.” Your calmness will help guide your child through the stressful experience of a storm.
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